(Snippets from the frontline)
COVID-19: The epitome of caregiving
He was a stay-at-home dad. She parlayed hidden talents into a family-supporting career.
Both were gifted. He played in a 60s California rock band that opened for Jimi Hendrix and Janis Joplin, then cared for the kids while she became a professional hairstylist for Hollywood stars. Their life was never the drug scene, fancy cars or homes.
Now older, they feel the hammer of age taking a toll on their body and soul. He is bedridden suffering from diabetes and a stroke. She has an autoimmune disease decimating her body. Both have been hospitalized several times in the recent past.
Rendering care for him is 24/7/365. Close-by family has helped, but they will be moving away. Feeding, changing linen, bathroom chores, monitoring diet, and skin care are ongoing…and backbreaking. Tiredness is chronically heard in her voice when I talk to her.
With COVID-19, neither want to be admitted to a hospital or nursing home. They have Medicare and a supplement, but it does not pay for home care, unless they are on hospice. They are not ready for that.
Where is the safety net?
How many others are suffering?
Gene Uzawa Dorio, M.D.
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